A bachelor party, like the best man speeches, is more about tradition that it is about a man’s last night as a “free” man. Generally, a bachelor party is pretty open to interpretations and the wishes of the Groom. Talk to the Groom and ask him what sort of party he’d like to have, and listen to him. You’re probably one of the people that knows the Groom the best, when it comes to planning an awesome Bachelor party, follow what you know.

There are no set rules or traditions to adhere by when planning the activities for a bachelor party. Some guys prefer to get a myriad of strippers and drink insane amounts of alcohol, while others just want to go out with their buddies and watch football at the sports bar. Knowing what the groom expects and is alright with will help avoid any awkward results. If your Groom is a laid back kind of guy, you don’t want to hire squad of strippers.

Planning is important if you want to throw a great party. Check everyone’s calendar and pick a date that works for all the people you intend to invite. Do some research and find a good location. Bachelor parties can be held anywhere from a VIP room at a restaurant to renting out whole clubs. This will require a fair amount of time to book in advance, so do it as early as possible. Think about what kind of menu you want there to be and if there will be alcohol. People will need transportation home if there is drinking, so find a good way to get home safely. Make sure you set up a system where everyone chips in to pay for the party, because it’s not your responsibility alone. You want to make sure the Groom doesn’t have to pay for anything, so let your buddies know.

More and more parties are being combined to include both the Groom and the Bride. Bachelor parties can be uncomfortable to talk about with a Bride, especially if she doesn’t think strippers qualify as legitimate entertainment. If the Groom wants to hold a party with his Bride-to-be, don’t get mad. All that means is that the girls there are the friends of the Bride, as opposed to topless waitresses. You may also need to consider your best mans speeches before the wedding.

It’s nearing the Big Day and you are on the home stretch. Get plenty of rest, because wedding days are long days, and you don’t want to be phasing out during the party. Even though I know you won’t cry, pick up some tissues before the wedding. I’m sure someone will need them. Your part in the wedding is very special, and you want to be able to perform to the best of your abilities. The Groom chose you to help carry him through this very special day, so be proud of that.

Remember to keep your speech natural and sincere. This best man speeches is your opportunity to let the Groom know how much you value his friendship and his loyalty. Making a mistake in your best man speechs happens more often than not, so don’t get to down on yourself if you mess up.